The Science of Sexy After Pregnancy

Do you know how many articles there are on this subject??? I'm sure a Google search would turn up an entire 40 search pages...

Once a baby had deformed your once beautiful body, one is not feeling especially appealing. You remember what you used to feel like and what you used to look like. The stress of work, home, and kids leaves you feeling less than sexy. Normal.

Your man may not understand this. He may know this, but NOT understand this. Just as you know that throwing on the sexy underwear and shoes with a bit of makeup is what he may need as well, but who really feels like doing that when your body looks like the side show from the circus...perception is a large part of sexy.

No matter what he may TELL you, if you don't feel sexy, it doesn't matter. What do you do then?

Fight through it. But the things on he asks, but expect to have your ego pumped as well. It's not a one way thing. You need to have him tell you your sexy if he wants you to BE sexy. He has to help you get there if that's what he wants fron YOU.

There is a saying that states: You get out what you put in...sexy in...sexy out...

So there we go...the secret to sexy after pregnancy...both must make an effort to build it back up. It's not all up to you since this pregnancy state sure didn't come about without help.

Now that's not to say you need a nan to be sexy...this is directed to those in loving relationships where both parties have decided not to be selfish in their wants and needs...which can sometimes be hard to do when it comes to sex...